5
May

Just What is a Progressive Pioneer?

by Tiffany in Birth & Baby, parenting

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A guest post from Amy Thompson

Sometimes the most progressive ideas are the oldest and simplest, the ones that took place 100 years ago, when no one saw anything revolutionary about them at all.  Today there are so many parenting options, so many ways to feed, clothe and care for our children.  Many spring from media moguls and business tycoons, others are born in laboratories and research centers.  In the midst of all these high tech, color coordinated, safety tested, pediatrician recommended options, the most radical choice can be to simply say, “No thanks.”  

When we trust our intuition, and look within, rather than to external sources for the answers, we will often find that the simplest solutions are best.  Why feed our babies deconstructed, vitamin-fortified, puffed cereals when we can simply cook up some nice, hot oatmeal, vitamins all intact?  Do we really need an entire car seat/carrier/stroller system that makes it entirely possible to go hours at a time without ever touching your baby?  Hold that sweet babe tight to your breast, wrapped in a simple cloth as millions of mothers have done before!  The latest parenting books urge us to let our babies “cry it out,” when every cell in our body tells us to fold them into our arms and soothe them to sleep.  Listen to your body!  Forget the cribs, the baby food, the play pens.  We women have been doing this for eons.  Choose to follow the examples of our pioneer forbears;  live simply, live close to the earth and close to your loved ones.  

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There is a line of reasoning called Occam’s razor that states that when faced with multiple theories, the simplest answer is usually the correct one.  So it is with mothering and life in general.  When all the world is turning to the latest gadget, the latest expert advice, the latest health fad, we can pioneer the way back to our roots, back to simplicity

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Tuesday, May 5th, 2009

14 Comments

  • http://www.naturemoms.com Tiffany

    Love this Amy! Saying “No Thanks”…can it be so simple? I would agree that it is. ;)

  • http://riceinmay.blogspot.com/ Nicole Rice

    awesome post…….thanks for sharing! (typed as wear my baby in a wrap and sway her to sleep)

  • http://www.puremothers.com Deborah

    Love it. Never use the stroller. My bag goes in it and I carry my toddler or let him walk. I so enjoyed carrying him in a sling as a baby. I ended up not using half the gadgets I got at my baby shower. I wanted to be close to my child. We need to trust our instincts.

  • http://notthejetset.net Mrs. Not the Jet Set

    Great post! You are so right. I hope that more women become progressive pioneers. It just feels right when you are in tune with nature.

  • http://www.progressivepioneer.com amy thompson

    Thanks for the positive feedback everyone, and thanks Tiffany for the opportunity to share!

  • Angela

    Yeah! I couldn’t agree more loudly if I screamed it from my rooftops. Now off to crawl into bed with my little one – he’s a nighttime co-sleeper. This coming from a cloth diapering, gardening, sewing, clothesline mama :)

  • http://www.thenaborsbaby.blogspot.com Brandi N.

    How refreshing! Great post, I’ll think I’ll go grab my wrap and take Stella for a walk!

  • Michelle Y

    Ah, what a nice post :) Made me smile. Our local newschannel (Portland, OR) is doing a segment tonight on “simple” living with babies…I’m interested to see just how simple it will be ;)

  • http://www.terratees.com Missy

    Nice and so true. Loved wearing my babies and got sad when they were ready to walk and move on their own! Mine have never fallen asleep alone and I don’t have a moments regret.

  • Angela

    Thank you! This is the most refreshing ‘thought’ right now as i have an 8 mth old that does not like ‘going to bed.’ 95% of the time i end up grabbibg him up and cuddling him or bringing him to bed with us, so this very much encouraged me to BE ME…a snuggly mama who wants a beautiful happy babe! And if that means co-sleeping, then so be it……i’ll love every minute of it. *big smile

  • http://www.peppermintstreet.blogspot.com Nutmeg

    These are great ideas. I think, however, that attachment parenting should be taken with a grain of salt just like any other parenting style. What’s most important is doing what works for your baby. For example, my first baby absolutely loved going for walks in her stroller, in addition to being in a baby carrier. She found it very relaxing. My first and second babies spent a lot of time co-sleeping with us, but my third baby did not sleep well with us (she would wake up in the middle of the night and start crawling around and playing). She sleeps way better in her crib.

  • http://greenacrosstexas.blogspot.com/ Maxine

    I really wanted to be able to use a baby wrap, but alas, my son would have none of it! He hated being in the wrap and he was a very loud sleeper, and moved constantly when he was in our bed. He slept much better(and so did we) once we put him in a crib

  • http://www.affordablemedicaldental.com Sarah

    How sweet! :) I love the pictures. I am still searching for the perfect sling though.

  • http://organicmamas.blogspot.com Leigh

    Great post, couldn’t agree more. Attachment parenting is what it’s all about.